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	<title>Comments on: OAB Roundtable #10: Speaking of birthdays&#8230;</title>
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		<title>By: spyderkl</title>
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		<dc:creator>spyderkl</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 14:57:49 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I lucked out and was able to use the iRadio; I&#039;ve had a whole lot less luck with iPlayer, but iRadio usually works.  Thanks so much for the link!

I agree with what the psychologists and social workers had to say.  Contact really should be in the best interests of the child, and not if it&#039;s too difficult for either set of parents.  However, foster adoptions are a whole other story.  There are instances where contact beyond pictures and letters isn&#039;t a good idea, to put it delicately.  A parent, with whatever modifier you need to use, needs to think about their child&#039;s safety first.  

Our adoption was a little different in that School Girl was placed with us as a 6-week-old infant.  Right now my frustration isn&#039;t with too much contact, but there&#039;s nothing I can do about that.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I lucked out and was able to use the iRadio; I&#8217;ve had a whole lot less luck with iPlayer, but iRadio usually works.  Thanks so much for the link!</p>
<p>I agree with what the psychologists and social workers had to say.  Contact really should be in the best interests of the child, and not if it&#8217;s too difficult for either set of parents.  However, foster adoptions are a whole other story.  There are instances where contact beyond pictures and letters isn&#8217;t a good idea, to put it delicately.  A parent, with whatever modifier you need to use, needs to think about their child&#8217;s safety first.  </p>
<p>Our adoption was a little different in that School Girl was placed with us as a 6-week-old infant.  Right now my frustration isn&#8217;t with too much contact, but there&#8217;s nothing I can do about that.</p>
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		<title>By: Emma</title>
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		<dc:creator>Emma</dc:creator>
		<pubDate>Wed, 25 Nov 2009 11:50:21 +0000</pubDate>
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		<description>I&#039;ve just listened to a very interesting piece on BBC Radio 4&#039;s &#039;All in the Mind&#039; programme. Here&#039;s a link :

http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006qxx9

If you can&#039;t stream it, there&#039;s a downloadable podcast &quot;Health Matters&quot;, [there&#039;s a link on the page] which contains this programme.</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>I&#8217;ve just listened to a very interesting piece on BBC Radio 4&#8217;s &#8216;All in the Mind&#8217; programme. Here&#8217;s a link :</p>
<p><a href="http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006qxx9" rel="nofollow">http://www.bbc.co.uk/programmes/b006qxx9</a></p>
<p>If you can&#8217;t stream it, there&#8217;s a downloadable podcast &#8220;Health Matters&#8221;, [there's a link on the page] which contains this programme.</p>
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